Showing posts with label pleasing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pleasing. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

So long, Farewell

Farewell, vain world; my soul bids you adieu. My Savior taught me to abandon you. Your charms may gratify a sensual mind, but cannot please a soul for God designed. David Brainerd



Reading today’s quote brings to mind the movie “Sound of Music” and the song the kids sang at the party right before they were marched off to bed by their nanny. One by one the kids had their own little part in the song. As they sang they did a little dance that wound up kicking in the bottom the one who just sang off the stage. One of the kids bid the crowd adieu but said she would love to stay and taste her first champagne. Her dad looked at her in a disgusting manner as he shook his head “No” and off she went.

The song they sang should be a tune in our own hearts about, “So long, farewell I bid you world adieu. My Savior taught me how to discard you.” End of song. But no! We don’t stop there we go on like the teenage daughter in the movie. “I bid you adieu BUT I’d like to stay and taste my first sin, my first chance at “living up” life before it’s totally gone, my chance to say what I want and do what I want because I am who I am.


Although we may not want to admit it we get the same look from our Heavenly Father as the girl in the movie got from hers. The answer is “No.” God doesn’t teach us how to adhere to the world but how to abandon the world of sin, self gratification, disobedience, and bad choices. God knows that the charms of the world, the things it makes look good by gratifying a sensual mind are things that are not going to please a soul designed by God for God.


If you think about it one of the things that is hard to stand up to and recognize it as good or bad is someone’s charm. Charm is a tool often used to flatter people into doing something they shouldn’t. There is good charm and there is bad charm. Charm that gets you to do something you shouldn’t is bad and that is the charisma Satan uses on us trying to get the sensual side of us caught into something it shouldn’t.


It’s important we recognize Satan’s allure for what it is and instantly tell him, “Get ye behind me Satan, I bid you adieu. Get lost, you’re a jerk.” Who ever started the rumor that we get to appeal to Satan’s charm first? Then after we have had our fun then we can save a little bit of time at the end of our lives to dedicate to pleasing God. HOGWASH!


We all have a soul in us that is designed by God for God, a soul that is meant to please the Lord not ourselves. God knew from the beginning if we weren’t designed that way we would have self-destructed a long time ago trying to please ourselves. As “charming” as doing our own thing sounds in the long run it just doesn’t work. Therefore, we need to bid Satan and his entire ways adieu before that self-destruction sets in.


What we need to practice in our lives is self-discipline instead of self-destruction. One path leads us to God, the other leads to a dead end road of pain and suffering for all eternity. There are two choices yet only one to choose from really. Now not later is the time to bid Satan adieu forever and ever. To abandon him and adopt God as God has adopted us.


Once again, second verse, same as the first “So long, farewell I bid you world adieu. My Savior taught me how to discard you.” End of song, the beginning of a precious life with God. AMEN!


Our host today is Urailak at her blog, LivingforGod. So long, farewell and see you next Tuesday.

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Pleasing to God


July 15, 2008

When we are set free from the bondage of pleasing others, when we are free from currying others approval-then no one will be able to make us miserable or dissatisfied. And then, if we know we have pleased God, contentment will be our consolation. ~Kay Arthur-

Guilty as charged! Years ago I was convicted and tried in my own heart of being a people pleaser. I didn’t know I was doing anything wrong. After all as Christians we are suppose to be thinking of others not ourselves and that is what I thought I was doing. As I attempted to carry out what I felt was a requirement attached to my faith I convinced myself that through pleasing others I was pleasing God. Innocently I was living a lie Satan had put in my heart. What was required was pleasing God first and getting my priorities straight in my life. How I treated others would stem from that number one priority.

If you stop and think about it there’s a lot of long journeys taken and unnecessary roads traveled simply because we got started off on the wrong priority set before us. I know I added to my journey in life simply because I was in the business of trying to be a “Martha Luther” trying to reform the world or those around me through what I thought was my “Christian duty” that turned out being the task of a “people pleaser.” A task that could have had a better outcome than the bondage I was feeling if I had gone at it the right way.

Instead of being a super-suffering, depressed, played out, discouraged pleaser we need to work hard at being a positive pleaser. One who nicely navigates the "balance beam of life." Liking who we are as we play out in the right manner the roles of nurturer and caregiver to others. Finding our balance between pleasing people and having people treat us with respect in a pleasing behavior in return. By doing this we can be assertive without being abrasive, confident without being cocky, and self-nuturing without being selfish. Working hard at putting our priorities straight with priority #1 being pleasing God himself.

Listed below are the things that please God. Sit down with your Bible and God and find out what it is that pleases Him the most and put what you learn into action.


The Things that Please the Lord


Psalms 19:14 ___________________________________
Psalm 69:30,31 __________________________________
Psalm 104:34 ___________________________________
Proverbs 15:8 ___________________________________
Proverbs 15:26 __________________________________
Proverbs 16:7 ___________________________________
John 8:29; 1 John 3:21,22 ___________________________
Romans 8:8 ____________________________________
Romans 12:1; 1 Timothy 2:1-3 ________________________
Romans 14:17,18 _________________________________
1 Cor 7:32______________________________________
2 Cor 5:9_______________________________________
Galatians 6:8 ____________________________________
Ephesians 5:8-10 _________________________________
Philippians 4:18 __________________________________
Colossians 1:10 __________________________________
1 Thessalonians 4:1 _______________________________
1 Timothy 5:4 __________________________________
Hebrews 11:6 ___________________________________
Hebrews 13:16 __________________________________

Once you see the joy in pleasing God it changes from being a “priority” to something that you’ll want to do and do it right. Praise the Lord. What a blessing it is serve the Lord in this way, someone who doesn’t take advantage of our desire to please. Who won’t use it to control us but to nurture us back in our own spiritual needs within, forgiving us when we fall short instead of kicking us while we are down. A task that can be accomplished instead of one that seems to go on forever with no end in sight that is full of joy for the one being pleased, God, and us the pleaser for all eternity. God said it Himself in Hebrews 13:20,21 Through the blood of Jesus Christ, God will equip us with everything good for doing His will. And will work in us what is pleasing to Him through Jesus Christ.” We’re not alone, we come equipped!


Our host this week is Denise over at ShortyBear’s , drop in to read and share with others on today’s quote.